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He’s so sexy when…

femmeseductionandbravado — Thu, 01 Apr 2010 00:00:30 +0000

Wonder what traits girls find sexy in guys? Here’s some of the special things about men that entice the fairer sex.

GUYS ARE SEXY WHEN…

*HE SMILES OR LAUGHS*- A guy who isn’t too serious, who laughs often and un self-consciously . Yea sometimes being the strong silent type is attractive, but a guy who can laugh lightheartedly or smile vibrantly transmits a confident, vivacious and super sexy vibe. I’ve seen my share of guys who don’t smile or laugh enough because they are either too self conscious or get upset so easily. The latter either get hostile or sulk when things get to them. A guy who lets thing slide, who doesn’t let things get to him, now that’s so cool. A who’s on top of things including his temper is the very impressive.

*HE WHISPERS WHEN HE’S TALKING TO YOU*- Some may reserve whispering for when they have a secret to tell, when in a library or other place that requires you to be quiet, but.. Whispering is a killer weapon if you know how to use it. It’s really sexy when you’re one on one with that special guy, whether it’s in a private situation or not, if while talking to you starts whispering. It could be in a soft tender tone or a sultry alluring one. This creates an intimate atmosphere, everyone, and everything around you seems to disappear all other sounds seem to be muted. The only thing you can see & hear is him.

*WHEN HE MAKES STRONG, DIRECT EYE CONTACT *- When a guy looks right at you especially when he’s talking to you. This can really stir a girl up! To some, this might seem uncomfortable or embarrassing, and yea I guess it might be at first. But in the right situation, when a guy looks at you like that…. It makes you feel special. Such a bold move lets you know he’s sure of himself(very sexy)and that he’s comfortable with you . It’s a move that definitely pumps up the intimacy factor. This move says , “my full and undivided attention is concentrated on this moment, on us, on you.”

*HE KNOW HOW TO USE HIS TOUCH* – Some guys think that a real man has to have “player” moves. That is, to be overtly direct and flirtatious. There are guys who are too touchy with girls too quickly. If you use your touch sparingly and delicately it will have a much more profound effect. Touching her hand or arm when talking , caressing her face or playing with her hair . Recently I was watching a drama where a guy likes this girl but hasn’t told her. They were sitting, talking and he took her face in his hands as he casually and gently spoke to her, he even placed his finger on her lips. Her reaction was discreet , but you could notice a definite change in her face. She was flustered, but in a good way. After he gave her some advice, he smiled, said good night, and walked away. He didn’t kiss her, he didn’t try to flirt with her, he didn’t touch her more than that. It was all just a gentle an innocent touch, while they were having a conversation about a problem she was having, but it had a profound meaning/effect.

*HE’S SO OBVIOUSLY SUBTLE*- Some guys lOVE to play up their good qualities and they should, I mean that’s how you get noticed. However, some try to catch a girl’s attention by going around promoting themselves through showy and way too obvious actions. The truth is that guys who are subtle, and delicate in their ways stand out the most! Guys who talk in soothing, calm, subtle manner, who carry themselves with poise and sophistication are definitely guys who catch a girl’s eye. Yes this may seem backwards, but the fact of the matter is, that for a guy who really has things going for him, his everything will speak for itself there’s no need for him to try too hard. Girls will notice this, notice him and find him very sexy.

*HE’S MOST MASCULINE AND SEXY WHEN HE’S GENTLE AND TENDER*- If I had a dollar for every time I’ve heard that guys are born to be stoic protectors, defenders. When a guy is secure enough to show a gentler side of himself: when he’s gallant, sensitive, shows vulnerability…etc When a guy reveals these traits, his girl notices that there is much diversity and depth about him. This is something that far surpasses the appeal of a guy who acts in a manner that is concerned with protecting his “tough guy” ,“real man” image.

*WHEN HE POUTS* Of course no one wants to deal with a guy who’s immature and spoiled 24/7 but it’s pretty adorable when a guy wants to be pampered,spoiled, babied and pout once in a while.

Simply Smexy

femmeseductionandbravado — Mon, 08 Mar 2010 22:57:31 +0000

Feeling tense, bored, a little down? Then check out these awesome music vids. These 2 songs are laid back, romantic, sweet, and super sexy all at the same time. Listening to them really puts me in an awesome mood. For the girls: I recomend the vids because you can enjoy two treats, the songs themselves and the smexy, sultry masculinity that are these two awesome singers. For the guys: I recommend these vids to those who like me are into a vibe that is all about cool & sexy. I also recommend it to those guys who are looking for inspiration in order to inject a little something extra into their game. I really think these are two chaps from whom it’s definitely worth picking up a few pointers from. What do girls want? Can’t speak for all women but many have said they’d like something along these lines(guys like these).

Super romantic when a guy still remembers everthing about a girl, even her scent. That kind of thing makes a guy seem so sensitive but so manly at the same time & makes a girl feel like a woman: very alluring, beautiful, feminine.

OMGness!! Which girl wouldn’t like totally die of happiness to have a guy give her a confession like the words in this songs ?!

Thnx a million to orenji728 at YouTube for providing these awesome vids for all us crazy romantics to enjoy.

True love : Famous couples (videos)

femmeseductionandbravado — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 22:19:34 +0000

Romeo & Juliet

Elizabeth & Mr. Darcy

Doug & Kate

Melanie & Jake

Rick & Ilsa

Famous L♥ve songs

femmeseductionandbravado — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 21:59:34 +0000

Listen to some of the most recognized and beloved love songs along with a couple of my favs. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone.

Sexy Song of The Day

femmeseductionandbravado — Fri, 22 Jan 2010 21:02:20 +0000

I love this song one of Craig’s sexiest.

Share your 1st Kiss Stories

femmeseductionandbravado — Mon, 11 Jan 2010 22:23:59 +0000

So I was looking for : cool, romantic, cute, funny, interesting, unbelievable…. first kiss stories, however the search engines failed me miserably. I scoured as much as I could & it was a tough search with the results being: only a few good ones turned up. Also I was quite disappointed at the lack of guys accounts. I’m really interested in a male perspective & recollection. Oh well…. Anywho the following are some stories that I did discover & I’m really thankful to those who were cool enough to share them with us. Ok, one last thing, feel free to share your 1st kiss stories in the comments section thnx =)

________1ST KISS STORIES_________

“My first kiss was simply romantic. I was in lower secondary then and dating a higher grade guy was absolutely cool and ego-boosting. I didn’t know why he seemed handsome to me then. We had our post-examination celebration. We went to the arcade centre and we took part in the usual activities that young teens would do. A group of us walked further down Marina South to be by the Singapore River. Right under Benjamin Sheers Bridge we enjoyed the sun, the sea breeze, & the occasional passing of ‘tongkang’(tug-boats). Laying right beside the river, staring into each others eyes, we kissed. There was suddenly a surge of adrenaline and a group of on-lookers as well. Well, it was almost romantic when passengers on the ‘tongkang’ start to cheer for us. It was a rather romantic and embarrassing first kiss.”

— Ivy, Singapore

♥i was my crush’s b-day party and i was talking to my crush for like hours. i could tell all my friends had been watching us for a long time too. i really really wanted to kiss him but i didn’t know how to. Everyone was always saying that he liked me and he wanted to ask me out but i didn’t know if those were just rumors…. so i just acted like friends and nothing more. then he said “omg i have to show you something upstairs!” and i looked at my friends and they motioned for me to go. so i said “ok sure.” So then he grabbed my hand and pulled my upstairs to his balcony!!! and it was beautiful! i could see the lake from there and it was night time so there was like 1 million lights! so i said “aww c.j! thats so beautiful!” and he said “just like you!” and i said “omg your’e so cute!” but i meant it in a friend kind of way! He leaned in and kissed me for like 2 minutes!!!! then he pulled away and started walking away! so i said ” c.j. come back! i’m not done yet!!” he smiled came back to me and we started kissing . -Natasha

*So i was really upset one day because my ex boyfriend wanted to get back together but he had really hurt me(we did kiss but this is way better). I went down to the beach near my house and i was crying because of the way i felt then and I was wondering what i was going to do …….and then my mom texted me and said my best friend that is a boy (i always thought he was cute) was coming down so i tired to stop crying(it was to late) he came to sit next to me he didn’t ask any questions and he pulled me closer to him and just let me cry on him…..i stopped crying after a Lil bit and then he made me look at him,and he softly kissed me and said “he doesn’t deserve you” so i was guessing my mom told him…..after he said that i started crying again and then he kissed me again that was the not only the best kiss but moment i have had in my life and i have kissed him everyday from then on. – Morgan, 16, N.Y.

*My first kiss was totally random. I was on my way home from a football game with my friends and my crush. (we all rode together) and he sat besides me and we were talking and out of nowwhere he kissed me. It was his first kiss too and it was just sweet. Cause it was like a mid sentance kiss.

♥One of the best first kisses I had was with this guy i was crushing on since we met. We liked each other since the first day we saw each other & a month after he asked me to be his girlfriend. We spent 7 together (not kissing at all) & midsummer i break it off because my best friend told me he was cheating Anyway we go months without talking & one day we start causal conversation. The more we talked the more we missed being with each other. He asked me to be his girl again & i accepted . So lol one day after school we were just playing around & stuff then the next thing i know we’re hiding up against a locker. Our eyes meet & without any words or sounds we lean in for our first kiss But yea we ended up breakin up and then getting back together & finally he broke my heart but that was one awesome kiss

Britt

*I was at my sisters singing competition, and I had liked this guy foreverrr… We were hanging out afterwards & he hugged me then asked what I wanted to do. I said “I don’t know” & he said “do u wanna go outside?” I said sure and we started holding hands and we walked outside. We went out on the balcony and it overlooked the highway and the mountains. He hugged me again but this time he didn’t let go so I just layed my head on his shoulder and we hugged for like 10 minutes, then he nudged my head up gently off his shoulder, looked into my eyes and slowly started to lean in. He kissed me and it was absolutely amazing! Then it was so great that I really seriously thought I had spaced out and it was a dream. So then I leaned in and kissed him again. I told him i was cold and he took me in for another hug and put my hands in his jacket pockets. We eventually walked back inside (still holding hands) since it was cold. I still like him to this day, but I learned that he is a huge player… He never asked me out , turns out he wanted to use for a ” friends with benefits” kinda thing without me knowing it. I kept hanging out with him cuz I thought he was gonna ask me out. We still talk and he still hasn’t. That was a year ago.. ): oh well, it was awesome!!

ally95254

♥we were on a cruise and we had been hanging out all week, everyone knew we liked each other but us. It was the last night,he was walking me to my cabin and we walked by some railing to look over at the water. He said let’s walk over here for a second and I just nodded. We stood there looking out at the water for a few minutes not saying anything and then he pulled me in for a hug and told me he was really going to miss me, then he looked at me and told me to close my eyes and he kissed me. It was magical And sweet he then grabbed my hand and walked me to my cabin that btw was his first kiss too

BeautifulLiar333

sources & picture credits:

http://health.discovery.com/centers/loverelationships/kiss/firstkiss_02.html

http://www.howtokiss.info/first_kiss_stories.htm

mellophonemaster08.xanga.com

sodahead.com

thefrisky.com

aprilsnow.blogsome.com

http://breakkup.com/with-a-friend/first-kiss-stories–1/

Real women & pretty boys

femmeseductionandbravado — Wed, 06 Jan 2010 00:13:15 +0000

A quote that all pretty boys should hear.

“I came to you without a doubt of my reception. You showed me how insufficient were all my pretensions to please a woman worthy of being pleased.” -Mr Darcy, Pride & Prejudice

picture credits:

http://img297.imageshack.us/i/hwdoucebags02vw0.jpg/

http://static.mysoju.com/images/upload/100_days_arrogant.jpg

stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/…/

http://img297.imageshack.us/i/hwdoucebags02vw0.jpg/

http://static.mysoju.com/images/upload/100_days_arrogant.jpg

stylenews.peoplestylewatch.com/…/

http://showclix.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2008/05/jayzkanye.jpg

http://southern4life.blogspot.com/2008_06_01_archive.html

SBS

Mens Fashion: How to rock some sexy jeans

femmeseductionandbravado — Tue, 05 Jan 2010 05:51:12 +0000

Video: Stylist Chris Benns shows u the rules to finding the perfect jeans that flatter your bod & help u look great whether ur going for that : elegant, sexy, stylish, or cool look.

VIDEO LINK:

http://lifestyle.msn.com/your-look/video/default.aspx?vid=1cff4326-28c4-4fc9-8c22-0af957a72110

(sorry wish I could embed, but it’s an MSN vid & I’m not sure how to work that)

photo credits:

http://hubpages.com/topics/fashion-and-beauty/mens-apparel/jeans/1380

denimblog.com

jeanshook.com

Sexy New Year’s Eve Celebrations around the world

femmeseductionandbravado — Fri, 01 Jan 2010 02:23:51 +0000

Can’t wait till 2010 Reaches So Cal USA !!

Sexy Show of the Day: K-Drama Que Sera Sera

femmeseductionandbravado — Thu, 31 Dec 2009 04:39:25 +0000

The story of an innocent, naive, selfless heart disillusioned & destroyed by narcissism, selfishness & greed. For optimistic & trusting Han Eun su life is what you make it & if you work hard you can get along just fine. If you look earnestly you can find good in just about anybody. For ”playboy”, more like gigolo Kang Teju money talks & love walks. Just getting along won’t cut it. His disgusting ambition is driven by an insatiable thirst to live the good life, a comfortable & luxurious lifestyle . Teju will do just about anything to get what he’s after, including entering a shameless contract for a relationship & marrying for money while shunning . Two individuals who are like night & day, the epitome of purity & corruption… How could they possibly become involved??? I really recommend that u watch this story unfold if you haven’t’ already seen it. This K-drama, ”Que Sera Sera” is definitely on my list of favorites.

LOL One of the most famous scenes from the drama where still half dazed Eun su utters to Teju after being ambushed with a kiss which he thought would scare her “Sir, that was… fun . Can we do it again?”